Non-Monogamy
Whether you are coming to therapy to discuss non-monogamy or you want a therapist who won’t get caught up in non-monogamy as you need support with a different topic, having a therapist who gets you and does not need to be educated is mandatory.
Non-monogamy is a valid relationship orientation with challenges and joys that can be similar and dissimilar to other relationship styles. I do not use the term “ethical non-monogamy” or ENM since monogamy is not required to be called “ethical monogamy.”
I offer a skilled and open environment for clients to process and find support for their experiences, concerns, and hopes.
“We also learn that love is a limited resource and that the love we want and need is too much, that we are too much. We learn to shrink, to lie about the whole love we need, settling with not quite good enough in order to not be alone.”
― Adrienne Maree Brown
Many of my non-monogamous clients come to therapy to cultivate the connections, agreements, and relationships they are seeking, as well as to foster personal growth.
You may also come to therapy seeking a deeper understanding of your own emotional needs and you may come to therapy for assistance with communication and boundary-setting in multiple partnerships. Probably both!
